We also have an Online Dating Site covering the whole of the UK for those too busy to attend our big singles parties in London with optional mass speed dating on a Saturday.

We have a General site which covers all ages so you can search within your age range even if on the younger end. There is also a Senior Site for those looking for a relationship and an Adult site for those just looking for some fun. Go to https://www.contactsingles.co.uk/dating or just click on the Online Dating button at the top of our site.

How do I join Contact Singles?

Go to the Join page and fill in your details. We are a members' club and we require details for attendance at events.  We are very aware of The Data Protection Act so your details are not passed to any third parties. We do not have a box which you tick saying you are agreeing to any terms or conditions so you can be sure that this promise is genuine. Alternatively you can just book an event via the booking area and text name with year of birth to 07809 709099 once booked. There is no need to also fill in the join form as details are confirmed when you book


Is there a Membership Fee that I have to pay in order for me to attend your singles events in London?

There isn't any charge to join our singles club in London. Once you have supplied your details you only pay for the events you wish to attend.


What is the dress code at your London Singles Club?

Please see the Dress Code page. Now we have bar/clubby type venues only it is basically Smart/Casual. Not too casual guys or ladies are just not impressed. It is smart dress code for the hotel events when we ask for no blue jeans but suit trousers, smart shirt, smart shoes and blazer jacket. No t shirts, jumpers or trainers at any events please.


What are the formats for your London singles events?

 At bar and hotel venues it is simply an informal party with DJ and we have optional Socialising Circle from 7.45pm until 8.30pm before the DJ livens up the party. We also offer introductions at the bar from 7pm so this is the best time to arrive if you are new or wishing to meet all the new members.


Are members genuinely single?

As we are a members' club and we take details to join,we assume people are unattached at the time of attending events. We do keep in touch with our members by email and text so we know if the details supplied are accurate.


Is the number of males/females attending events Balanced?

We ask for prepayment for our events so we can ensure that there is a balance between men and women as much as possible..


Will it be alright for me to come alone to your events?

We concentrate on introducing at our events. We have a team of 5 of us running each event  always with two dedicated to introducing. If a member comes alone we initially introduce members in mixed groups at 7pm, including ladies to other ladies who come alone and even men to other men. Obviously we're aiming to introduce members to people of the opposite gender but it always helps to make new social friends.

We also have a female networking service where we can put ladies in touch with other ladies living in their area and this means you could even travel into an event with another member. There isn't any charge for this service so let us know when you join if you would like to add your name to the networking list. Please join our female networking at https://www.meetup.com/London-Single-Females-United/ .


How do I find out more about your London singles events and what are your charges?

Please look on the Events page to see the list of forthcoming events. All charges and timings are shown on this page for each event. All you need to do is book with card via the booking area for an event and then confirm mobile by texting full name with year of birth to 07809 709099 once you are booked.. The payment area is just above the information for each event on the Events page and you can book with card whether you have a Pay Pal account or not. Just click on 'Create an account' below the login area for Pay Pal and you can then book with card. Pay Pal will send a confirmation email to you and one to us when you have booked successfully. You always need to text name through with message you have booked via the site to 07809 709099 as this confirms if your number is current even if you are already registered with us. We send ticket to your mobile so confirmation of number is required. If you book for a friend we need their name, mobile and email so please send this through to : This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. at the time you book as we need to confirm your friend's details before attendance.


What is the cancellation deadline?

Cancellation is usually 12 noon the day before the event if the bar venue and 2 days prior to the event by 12 noon for the hotel venue.   We send confirmation of booking stating the cancellation deadline. If cancelled by this deadline we do not make a refund but we can hold over a credit for another event. This credit is non transferable to another person unless their details have been confirmed by the day before the event.


What is the average age range at your events?

Most members are between 30 to late 50s/early 60s at the Saturday functions with a majority aged between 35 - 55. Obviously members younger or older than this are welcome but the majority joining definitely seem to fall between 35 - 55. We average 200 - 250 at our bar events  and 400 - 450 at the hotel parties so there should be enough within the age range of interest to you and especially if you are from 30s to 50s.It is advisable to book by the day before the event as we reach maximum numbers. Our events are promoted on 9 Meet Up groups now, Skiddle, Event Brite, Design My Night as well as our own website.  We have  also been going since 1994 and already have a very big database.


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